Today I took off from work to head to Maine for my Grandfather’s funeral, he passed away earlier in the week at the young age of 80. Also on the same day, Sarah was flying into Boston for one night before heading out for a week-long relief/aid trip to the 3rd-world. We would only get to hang out for a few hours but the timing worked out. I grabbed a Zipcar, picked her up from Logan Airport, brought her home, hung out for an hour, returned the Zipcar, and made it to South Station in time for my bus to Maine.
Before heading to Logan, I made a stop at Goodwill in Roxbury to drop off some remaining stuff from my 100-Item Challenge back in November. I had a shelf, a baseball bat, a pair of old winter gloves, a few t-shirts, and some other assorted items that I put in a corner and planned to get rid of back in November. I just didn’t count them toward my 100 items and planned to get rid of them as soon as I had the time. Life got busy and I didn’t make the time for a Goodwill stop until today. 100 item challenge = success.
On the way to the airport to pick up Sarah, I stopped by a flower stand in Back Bay that I had seen on my way to pick up the Zipcar. My romantic side doesn’t come out often (sorry Sarah) but today I thought it’d be a great random act of kindness to greet her at the airport with a rose.
Even though she was only going to be in town for part of the day, the act of me getting her a rose was indeed random and kind. It literally only took me 5 minutes and $5, definitely worth it. Like I said before, my romantic side doesn’t come out often, but when it does, it definitely gives me mega-brownie points. However, I’m not exactly sure who this random act of kindness was for. Was it for her or was it actually for me? Inevitably, giving a girl a rose is a positive experience for the man as well. So was this altruistic or selfish? I’ll side with a mixture of both. Either way it made her happy and she was totally caught off guard.
Now hopefully she makes it back from the 3rd-world without getting dysentery…